Yesterday (January 30) marked the one-year anniversary since our Syrian family arrived in Saugeen Shores. Now the Saugeen Shores Refugee Fund is no longer legally tied to the Al Ibrahim family in any way and they are officially on their own, permanent residents and, hopefully, eventual citizens of Canada. It’s thanks to you, the members of this community, that they have a safe new place to call home.
We continue to await matching with a second family profile and do not know how long that will take. Last we heard, we were 16th in line with Mennonite Central Committee, but the government stated that, on January 30th, it would resume matching sponsorship groups with refugees that fall into our particular category (known as the Blended Office Visa Referral, or BVOR, program, where sponsorship is shared between group and government). Matches will be made until the annual quota of 1,500 people is reached, and we have every reason to expect to be part of that number.
Our efforts to resettle refugees are more important than ever. With the turmoil in the United States and that hatred spilling over into Canada, too, everything we do here takes on tremendous value and symbolic importance. We must show our support for refugees and loving acceptance of immigrants from all parts of the world, regardless of religion. We must affirm our commitment to helping fellow humans in great need and to integrating them warmly into a secure future.
Mennonite Central Committee, the organization through which we’ve worked to resettle the Al Ibrahim family, sent out a message yesterday in the wake of Sunday’s shooting at a Quebec City mosque:
“We lament the senseless shooting at the Centre Culturel Islamique de Quebec. Our thoughts are with the families of those killed and we pray for healing for those injured. During these times we hope and pray that we can come together as communities to build peace.
“Through our Refugee Sponsorship Program, we have helped to welcome many Muslim people to Ontario and we are glad that they are here to help make our communities stronger and vibrant places. We know that diversity contributes to healthy communities.”
Saugeen Shores has done a phenomenal job of this so far. I get emotional just thinking of the past 15 months of generosity, support, and love that’s poured out of our community. Our Syrian family feels happy, at home, and settled. They are thriving, will soon be moving into a home of their own, are enjoying full-time employment and learning English quickly. Best of all, they feel they belong here. When asked if they would consider buying a house in Owen Sound, they were adamantly opposed because they like Port Elgin so much.
Thank you for all you’ve done this year, and for your ongoing support for refugee resettlement. Together, in our small towns of Port Elgin and Southampton, we have – and will continue to – make a real difference in the world.
A powerful new documentary about the early days of the uprising in Syria will be shown at the Bruce County Museum & Cultural Centre, in Southampton, on Saturday Dec. 10, beginning at 7 p.m. The event is in some ways a tribute to the community’s role in sponsoring Syrian refugees. The Saugeen Shores Refugee Group is hosting the event, with support from Canada’s International Development Research Centre (IDRC) and Global Affairs Canada.
The film, Little Gandhi, is an award-winning look at the role of Syrian peace activist Ghiyath Matar, who became an iconic figure in Syria’s freedom movement for giving flowers and water to troops sent to break up non-violent protests in the town of Daraya, in the early days of the uprising. Matar died in the custody of Syrian security forces in 2011.
The 2015 film was funded by IDRC’s Governance and Justice unit as part of a project on transitional justice with the Syrian Center for Political and Strategic Studies.
The film’s director, Sam Kadi, led a production team that took considerable risks to shoot a good part of the film in Syria. Many interviews were set in Daraya, which was still totally under siege by government forces at the time. Local activists were given a crash course in filmmaking via Skype and getting the footage back to the production team took months because of the difficulty in getting it out of the war zone.
It has been nearly one year since the town of Saugeen Shores opened its arms to the Alibrahim family. This 14-member Syrian family escaped the destruction of Aleppo and fled to Lebanon several years before making its way to Canada. Thanks to incredibly generous financial donations and countless hours of hard work by volunteers within the community, the family has settled in well, learning English quickly and figuring out how to navigate a culture that is drastically different from their own.
Said Katherine Martinko, coordinator of the Saugeen Shores Refugee Group:
“Looking at our happily settled newcomers, it can be difficult to remind ourselves that the war in Syria is ongoing. There are still bombs and gunfire in the streets. People, including children, continue to die, whether it’s from the fighting, lack of access to medical care, or not enough food.
“As Canadians and outsiders, living so far from the conflict zone, the war is difficult to comprehend; however, striving for a better understanding of it will ultimately make us better hosts to our own newcomers — those already here, and those yet to come — as well as clarify cross-cultural misunderstandings and, ideally, fill us with greater compassion toward those in great need.”
Immediately after the Dec. 10 screening at the museum, audience members will have the opportunity to take part in a panel discussion involving the film’s director (who will join by Skype) as well as Roula El-Rifai from the IDRC and Marie-Therese Helal from Global Affairs Canada.
The film was recognized by the European Independent Film Festival as the Best Feature Documentary in Arab Filmmaking and has been screened around the world. It is now touring major Canadian centres. But as a nod to the role that small communities like Saugeen Shores played in sponsoring Syrian refugees, a special screening is being mounted here. A second screening in the area will take place on the afternoon of Sunday, Dec. 11, beginning at 1 p.m. at the Huron County Museum, in Goderich, hosted by Welcome Project Syria.
Admission to both screenings is free, but space is limited, so tickets must be reserved online. Please book through Eventbrite at this link:
PLEASE NOTE: THE DINNER HAS BEEN SOLD OUT! No more tickets are available at this point.
Ghaydaa Kassem Aboud and her husband Saad Alibrahim are planning to host a community dinner with traditional Syrian cuisine. Ghaydaa hopes to use the proceeds from the dinner to launch a little company selling prepared food, as many people have expressed interest in her cooking. Tickets are limited, so buy now!
When: Sunday, November 13 at 6 pm,
Where: Port Elgin United Church, 840 Bruce Street
Tickets now available at Cathy’s Flowers and Port Elgin United Church office (Mon, Tues, Wed 9-12, Thurs & Friday 9-4. Correct cash only please)
Featuring soup, salad, babbaganoush, stuffed grape leaves, Basmati rice with peas and minced beef, Kibbeh, basbousa and Syrian baklava with walnuts, tea and coffee
The following post is adapted from a talk given by Katherine Martinko to the Saugeen Shores P.A.R.C. 55+ group in August. It provides an update on the Alibrahim family’s integration into Canadian life, six months after arrival.
So much has happened since the refugee committee picked up this family in Toronto on January 30th and drove them to this snowy, gray town. Since then, the family has discovered that warm weather does exist in Canada after all, and so does sunshine and plant life! For a long while, I don’t think they believed me when I promised it would eventually arrive.
You may recall that the Alibrahim family is unusual for its size. There are two parents, named Saad and Ghaydaa, and twelve biological children, who range in age from 19 to nine months. There are 7 boys and 5 girls. As you can imagine, visits to their house are chaotic on a level that even I, with three little kids at home, struggle to comprehend. I used to think it was hard to get out the door in the morning with my guys, but now I have a totally new perspective on things after seeing Saad and Ghaydaa in action with nine children to deliver to school and three to take to daycare.
Despite this, Ghaydaa and her oldest daughters manage to produce incredible meals that feed this vast tribe twice a day. Platters of roasted chicken, cumin-scented beef kebabs, fried fish, rice pilaf, cucumber salads, and my absolute favourite – something called kibbeh that tastes like a giant oily falafel stuffed with spicy ground beef – appear on their dining table with stunning regularity. How they do it, I don’t know. I can barely make sandwiches.
At the same time, Ghaydaa and Saad continue to commute to Owen Sound daily for English classes. They are part of a wonderful program run by the Alliance Church, taught by a Canadian couple named David and Andy Foster. The Fosters used to live in Egypt and speak Arabic, which puts them in a unique position for teaching English to all the adult newcomers who have arrived in the Grey-Bruce area in recent months. These include Syrians, Iraqis, and some Eritreans (who speak an obscure language called Afar that apparently doesn’t even exist in Google Translate, making matters especially hard for their sponsors).
When our Saugeen Shores group embarked on refugee sponsorship, we never knew this particular English program would exist, and yet it has become one of our region’s greatest assets for refugee resettlement. Thanks to the Fosters and the Alliance Church, families like ours are able to maintain a sense of community with other Syrians and Arabic speakers, celebrating common religious holidays, sharing meals, and supporting each other in the huge transition from life in the war-torn Middle East to peaceful Canada. I used to worry about how isolated the Alibrahims would feel living here in Port Elgin, but when I brought up the possibility of eventual relocation to a larger urban centre, I was met with horror by Saad and Ghaydaa, who told me they love it here.
Just last week, the entire English class, their families, sponsors, and volunteers were given free passes by the owners of Storybook Park. There must have been 70 of us who descended on the park for several hours. While the women and children rode rollercoasters, some for the first time, with their head scarves flying and laughter ringing loudly, the men fired up a whole line of barbecues at the pavilion and grilled meat for an impressive lunch. It was an emotional sight to see these families so happy and settled here, after who knows how many years of turmoil.
The Alibrahims have settled into their home, built friendships with their neighbours, learned to navigate the town. You may have seen some of their kids whipping around town on bicycles that were kindly donated by the Tiverton Lion’s Club. The family now has a vehicle – a used minivan that requires two trips to get the family anywhere, but it has given them much-needed independence for grocery shopping, running errands, and getting to Owen Sound.
Six of the kids attended Saugeen Central from February until June. The oldest boy, Ahmad, graduated from grade 8 and will be moving to the high school in the fall. He told me he cried when it came time to say goodbye to his teacher, Mrs. Sollors, and that she cried, too. “I don’t want to go to high school. I wish I could stay with her forever,” he said.
The younger kids are enrolled in summer day camps. Most of them play soccer; some are swimming, and attending the Southampton Music Camp. The three oldest kids all have summer jobs. Aisha is holding down two, working at Shopper’s Drug Mart and Giant Tiger. Ibrahim was given a position in a local roofing company, and Mohamad was hired by Canadian Tire. Their father Saad is also working part-time at Piper’s Glen Golf Course on weekends.
All of these jobs were created for this family by local business owners who reached out to our committee and asked to hire them. These employers have embraced the kids and Saad, trained them, and treated them with incredible patience because they believe in their ability to succeed in Canada and want to do what they can to give them a leg up. This ongoing generosity continues to affirm what I believed from the very beginning – that this community would be a perfect match for refugee resettlement.
What you’re all probably wondering is when the next family is going to arrive. I’m wondering the same thing, too. The way things stand right now is, we’ve got enough money to sponsor two more refugee families and will do so as soon as the federal government lets us. As of last week, we were #22 on a list of sponsorship groups working through Mennonite Central Committee, our facilitating organization, which means that nobody else is going to arrive before 2017. We’ve expanded our criteria to include refugees of all kinds, from anywhere in the world, but still the process is painfully slow.
I’ll admit this is frustrating for me. The government upheld its promise to bring 25,000 refugees into Canada, but as soon as it met that goal, the floodgates were closed and groups like ours were told to get back in line and wait indefinitely – this, despite having responded to the government’s own request that Canadian citizens step forward to aid with resettlement. We were fortunate, however, to get the Alibrahims as quickly as we did, and admittedly, with 14 family members, we’ve had our work cut out for us over the past half-year.
But we are ready for the next family, whenever that may be. The money has been raised, is being held in trust by Mennonite Central Committee, and my group is committed to seeing this through, no matter how many years it takes.
An update is long overdue! The Alibrahim family continues to settle in to Canadian life. The kids are doing well in school, picking up lots of English, and parents Saad and Ghaydaa continue to attend English classes in Owen Sound on a regular basis. One of the older kids has landed a summer job (yay!) and there are some other part-time employment opportunities on the horizon. This is an excellent step toward community integration, financial independence, and language improvement.
As you can see from the pictures below, the whole family had a lot of fun at the Easter egg hunt fundraiser for the Liv-A-Little Foundation. It was utterly unlike anything else they’d ever experienced!
We’ve had some turnover with the volunteer drivers taking Saad, Ghaydaa, and the three smallest children to Owen Sound. If you are available to drive, even if you have a car that only fits a few people, please let us know. We need an extra for tomorrow (Tuesday, April 26) and Thursdays, starting immediately. You can find our email address in the Contact tab above.
In the meantime, Saad is in the process of getting his driver’s license and hopefully will soon have a vehicle to drive. Until then, we continue to depend on volunteer drivers generously donating their time. Thank you so much to those who continue to do so; it is much appreciated.
When will the next families be coming?
We are on a waitlist for more refugee families, but have been told by Mennonite Central Committee, our Sponsorship Agreement Holder, that it could be months before we’re matched again. Now that the federal government has reached its 25,000 goal, the processing of refugee paperwork is no longer a priority.
This is infuriating. It leaves us – as well as many other Canadian sponsorship groups, some of which have not even received their initial families yet – feeling betrayed. After listening and responding to the Liberal government’s plea for citizens to step forward, fundraise, and welcome refugees into our communities, the immediate closing-of-the-gates and refusal to continue processing at the same speed as before is confusing and frustrating.
Of course there’s a tug-of-war for resources, and the refugee sponsorship program is typically a prolonged process measured in years, but the fact that our community (along with many others) responded specifically to the government’s request for immediate action makes me think that the government should respond accordingly.
Maclean’s describes the situation as such: “The Trudeau government moved the bureaucratic equivalent of heaven and earth to fulfill an epic campaign promise. Yet it now appears that as soon as it reached its goal, it sent the civil servants home and locked the doors. Everyone else still waiting in the queue? Get back in line, and brace yourselves for a much longer wait.”
One sponsorship group from Halifax has been told their Syrian family will take another 8 months to process in Turkey. Spokeswoman Renee Field told Maclean’s, “It’s a little bit of a slap in the face… The government asked us to rally. We rallied, we raised money, and then they shut us down. It is not acceptable.”
We are fortunate to have received our first family when we did, but it doesn’t make it any easier to wait for the next two that we hope to bring to Saugeen Shores. We have expanded our criteria to include non-Syrians, although we will still be able to reject potential matches if they don’t seem like a good fit for the community.
For those of you who donated specifically for these additional families, the funds will be held indefinitely by Mennonite Central Committee and will be available for our use once the matches are made. Those families will come; it’s just a question of when.
The Alibrahim family has been in Port Elgin for nearly two months now. It’s hard to believe how quickly the time has flown, and yet it also seems like they’ve been here forever.
The kids are doing great in school and the parents are thriving in English classes in Owen Sound. Saad goes five days a week, while Ghaydaa goes three times, due to childcare limitations. The three littlest ones accompany their parents to Owen Sound, with the baby staying in class while the 3-year-old and 4-year-old attend the YMCA daycare.
The parents are always eager to practice new vocabulary words and phrases. Ghaydaa, in particular, is excited to run through her English grocery words, which she adorably pulls out of nowhere in the middle of conversations. “Chicken! Beef! Fridge! Chair! Lamb! Cheese!” Saad and 18-year-old daughter, Aisha, are now able to carry on conversations and facilitate translation, which is amazing, since that was not possible when they first arrived.
Our core group, together with many generous volunteers, has been working hard to teach the family how to enjoy the Canadian winter. The kids love skating and have become very good at it in a short period of time. Now their favourite thing to do is attend the sponsored skates at the Plex, where they whiz around the ice for an hour and a half.
Two weeks ago, just before the snow melted, we squeezed in a glorious afternoon of sledding at Eastwood Park. It was a real highlight, as shrieks of joy and disbelief at the speed they were able to reach on a sled filled the air for several hours. The entire family was welcomed back to a nearby home for hot chocolate, cookies, and games afterward.
It’s been interesting trying to keep 12 kids occupied during March Break, especially with such poor weather. (I used to think keeping three busy was a challenge, but now I realize it’s nothing compared to a dozen!) We’ve done lots of skating, and the older boys have attended the sponsored swims at the nearby pool.
On Friday we went to MacGregor Point Provincial Park for a campfire cookout with beef hotdogs and marshmallows. We adults hovered around the fire, trying to warm up in the chilly air, while the kids raced around the forest, visited the beach, played football and badminton. The family enjoyed it greatly, although they were cold after an hour and a half and told me they’d love to try it again in the summer when it’s warm. We keep promising it will warm up, but I’m not sure they believe us…
The kids are supposed to receive a shipment of bicycles from the Tiverton Lions Club this weekend, which will give them even more freedom to explore the town.
At the end of February, Penny Inkster and members of the United Church in Port Elgin organized a potluck dinner to introduce the Alibrahims to all the volunteers who are involved in their resettlement. It was so much fun that we’ve decided to have community dinners on a regular basis; the next one will be on March 31 – although it is by invitation only.
Every week Canadian life gets easier for them, as they understand more of how it works – and especially now that they get a weekly delivery of 35 bags of pita bread right to their front door! Ghaydaa recently told me and Mariam that she feels more at home here than she ever did in Lebanon. Her words made us feel happy, since that sense of belonging is precisely what we hope for her (and the rest of the family) to feel while living in this community.
Thank you for the ongoing support from all. It is much appreciated.
It’s been exactly one week since we picked up our newcomers at a hotel near the airport in Toronto. What a week it’s been! We’ve registered kids for school, completed all medical appointments, filled out mountains of paperwork, shopped for groceries (including halal meat and loads of flatbreads), taken the family around town, to the lake, and skating at the arena. We’ve shared countless cups of sweet black tea and delicious meals around a very large table with many little faces.
The family is settling in, slowly but surely, and starting to understand more about how life works in Ontario. It’s a steep learning curve for all, but with each day it gets easier. I’d like to share a few photos of what we’ve been up to during the past week.